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Every essay, deep dive, editorial, and short piece published in Typical Male magazine. Writers from male, female, and nonbinary perspectives — all engaging with the same questions about contemporary masculinity.

Deep Dives

Long-form reported and personal essays exploring the inner life of contemporary masculinity.

Deep Dives · ♂ Male perspective
Twelve Weeks in a Fathers' Room

An embedded report from twelve weeks inside a men's group for fathers — what they say when nobody else is listening, and what changes. By Ben Holloway, 36.

Deep Dives · ♀ Female perspective
The Estate of Unsaid Things

A wife learns to read her husband's father into him — the silences he inherited, the gestures he did not choose, and what it took to start naming them. By Yasmin Reyes, 38.

Deep Dives · ♂ Male perspective
My Father's Silence, My Son's Silence

A father confronts the silence he inherited from his own father — and the silence he is, despite himself, handing to his son. By Marcus Webber, 41.

Deep Dives · ♂ Male perspective
What the Warrior Forgot

A Lakota man reclaims the warrior tradition that colonization stripped of its heart. By William C., 50. Published in Typical Male.

Deep Dives · ♀ Female perspective
What If We're Not Broken—Just Speaking Different Languages?

What if men and women aren't broken — just speaking different languages? An expanded deep dive by Rachel G., 30. Published in Typical Male.

Deep Dives · ♂ Male perspective
Two Kinds of Brave

A firefighter discovers the bravery that matters most has nothing to do with fire. By Andre J., 35. Published in Typical Male.

Deep Dives · ♀ Female perspective
The Word for Balance: A Conversation with Linda Y.

A Navajo elder explains what her language teaches about masculinity and balance. By Linda Y., 55. Published in Typical Male.

Deep Dives · ♀ Female perspective
The Vocabulary Gap: Notes From Couples Therapy

A couples therapist reveals how men struggle to name what they feel. By Rachel G., 30. Published in Typical Male.

Deep Dives · ♀ Female perspective
The Permission Slip: Who Gets to Feel What, and Why

Who gets to feel what, and why. An expanded deep dive by Sophia M., 16. Published in Typical Male.

Deep Dives · ♀ Female perspective
The Lobby Is a Mirror: What Gaming Culture Reveals About All of Us

What gaming culture reveals about all of us. An expanded deep dive by Aaliyah K., 14. Published in Typical Male.

Deep Dives · ♂ Male perspective
The Inheritance of Silence: What My Father Couldn't Say and What It Cost Us Both

What my father couldn't say and what it cost us both. An expanded deep dive by Diego M., 17. Published in Typical Male.

Deep Dives · ♂ Male perspective
The Game, the Weather, the Work

The three safe topics men use to avoid saying what they actually feel. By Ryan O., 28. Published in Typical Male.

Deep Dives · ♂ Male perspective
The Fine Box: What If Boys Aren't Broken—Just Different?

What if boys aren't broken — just different? An expanded deep dive by Marcus R., 13. Published in Typical Male.

Deep Dives · ♀ Female perspective
The Code of Silence on the Shop Floor

Inside the unwritten rules that keep factory men from speaking up about pain. By Gabriela R., 35. Published in Typical Male.

Deep Dives · ♂ Male perspective
The Body That Precedes Me: On Being Read Before Being Heard

On being read before being heard. An expanded deep dive by Jayden B., 15. Published in Typical Male.

Deep Dives · ♂ Male perspective
Primary Parent, Secondary Citizen: A Tuesday

A stay-at-home dad confronts the invisible judgment of rewriting fatherhood. By James T., 34. Published in Typical Male.

Deep Dives · ♂ Male perspective
I Optimized Everything Except the Part That Matters

A software engineer realizes no algorithm can fix his emotional life. By Kevin P., 30. Published in Typical Male.

Deep Dives · ♀ Female perspective
By Third Grade: Dispatches From Room 104

A third-grade teacher documents the moment boys learn to hide their feelings. By Destiny W., 25. Published in Typical Male.

Deep Dives · ♀ Female perspective
Between Two Manhoods: Notes on Somali Boys in America

Somali boys caught between inherited tradition and American masculinity. By Aisha O., 27. Published in Typical Male.

Deep Dives · ♀ Female perspective
Behind the Badge: What 30 Years on the Force Taught Me About Men Breaking

A retired officer reflects on three decades watching men break behind the badge. By Patricia O., 58. Published in Typical Male.

Editorials

Opinion and argument from writers across perspectives — male, female, nonbinary.

Editorials · ♀ Female perspective
What Therapy Got Wrong About Father Wounds

A licensed marriage and family therapist examines what pop psychology has gotten wrong about father wounds — and what the clinical research actually says.

Editorials · ♂ Male perspective
The Cycle Was Never a Cycle

A hospital chaplain argues that 'breaking the cycle' is the wrong metaphor for inheritance. The thing we receive is not iron. It is soil. By Rev. Thomas Caldwell.

Editorials · ♂ Male perspective
Things My Generation Didn't Say (and What I'm Learning From My Grandson)

A father lists the words his generation swallowed and hopes his sons will speak. By Frank D., 55. Published in Typical Male.

Editorials · ♀ Female perspective
The Emotional Playbook: Why Boys at My School Have Two Modes

A 16-year-old girl decodes the two emotional modes boys at her school are allowed. By Sophia M., 16. Published in Typical Male.

Editorials · ♀ Female perspective
The Double Bind: Black Masculinity Between Fear and Mockery

A professor examines the impossible expectations placed on Black boys in America. By Amara N., 47. Published in Typical Male.

Editorials · ♀ Female perspective
An Open Letter to the Parents of My Lost Boys

A veteran teacher writes to the parents of boys who are quietly falling apart. By Sarah M., 45. Published in Typical Male.

The Raw

Shorter, sharper pieces. Less polished. More direct. Sometimes uncomfortable on purpose.

The Raw · ♀ Female perspective
What I Finally Told My Husband About His Father

A wife describes the night she finally told her husband what she had observed about his father — the things he could not see himself. By Hana Kim, 39, Brooklyn.

The Raw · ♂ Male perspective
Things My Dad Never Said To Me

A list of the things one man's dad never said to him. Devastating accumulation, written from Cleveland by a son who finally has the language. By Jamie O'Brien, 34.

The Raw · ♂ Male perspective
The Eulogy I Haven't Written Yet

A son writes the eulogy for his still-living father. Tender, specific, honest about ambivalence. By Asher Goldstein, 44, Chicago.

The Raw · ♂ Male perspective
Inheriting His Rage

A son writes about the rage he inherited from his father, and the precise daily practice of not handing it forward to his own children. By Tre Williams, 36.

The Raw · ♂ Male perspective
The Rock Is Cracking: A Set About Arab Manhood

A stand-up comedian cracks jokes about Arab manhood until the punchlines hit home. By Ahmad H., 24. Published in Typical Male.

The Raw · ♂ Male perspective
The Man Without a Title

After losing his job, a man discovers he was never more than his role. By Michael T., 48. Published in Typical Male.

The Raw · ♂ Male perspective
The Flinch

A youth coach notices the moment a boy flinches away from vulnerability on the field. By Brian H., 42. Published in Typical Male.

The Raw · ♂ Male perspective
The Drama Machine

A 13-year-old boy navigates the chaos of middle school drama via text. By Marcus R., 13. Published in Typical Male.

The Raw · ♂ Male perspective
The Betrayal of Being Sad

A college student confesses the moment sadness became his most dangerous secret. By Tyler N., 20. Published in Typical Male.

The Raw · ♀ Female perspective
My Husband Worked Himself to Death and Called It Love

A widow reckons with the man who gave everything to his family except himself. By Rosa G., 52. Published in Typical Male.

The Raw · ♂ Male perspective
Hands Visible

A spoken word poem about the body language Black boys learn before they learn to read. By Jayden B., 15. Published in Typical Male.

The Raw · ♂ Male perspective
Dear Dad: The Things You Said With Your Hands

An unsent letter from a son to the father who spoke louder with silence. By Diego M., 17. Published in Typical Male.

The Raw · ♀ Female perspective
A Gamer Girl's Field Guide to the Typical Male Lobby

An unfiltered taxonomy of every guy in the game lobby, by a 14-year-old who has seen them all. By Aaliyah K., 14. Published in Typical Male.