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Responses: What to Do When He Says or Does X

Reactive walkthroughs for the moments when he says something blindsiding, does something scary, or shuts down entirely. You're already in the event — this is the next move.

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very-high
When He Asks for a Divorce

partner

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very-high
When He Confesses to Cheating

partner

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medium
When He Cried and Now Pretends It Didn't Happen

partner, friend

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medium
When He Disappears During Fights

partner

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high
When He Doesn't Want to See the Kids (Post-Divorce)

ex-partner, adult kid

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medium
When He Gets Angry at Small Things

partner, kid

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