Responses: What to Do When He Says or Does X
Reactive walkthroughs for the moments when he says something blindsiding, does something scary, or shuts down entirely. You're already in the event — this is the next move.
50 total
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- When He Asks for a Divorce
- When He Confesses to Cheating
- When He Cried and Now Pretends It Didn't Happen
- When He Disappears During Fights
- When He Doesn't Want to See the Kids (Post-Divorce)
- When He Gets Angry at Small Things
- When He Gets a Scary Diagnosis
- When He Ghosts You
- When He Goes No-Contact With His Family
- When He Goes Silent When Angry
- When He Got Fired
- When He Keeps Changing the Subject
- When He Lied About Drinking
- When He Punched a Wall (or Broke Something)
- When He Refuses to See a Doctor
- When He Relapsed
- When He Says 'I Can't Do This Anymore'
- When He Says 'I Don't Want to Talk About It'
- When He Says 'I'm Done'
- When He Says 'I'm Fine' But Clearly Isn't
- When He Says 'I've Been Unhappy For Years'
- When He Says 'Nothing Matters'
- When He Says 'You'd Be Better Off Without Me'
- When He Says He Doesn't Love You Anymore
- When He Says He Might Be Gay or Bi
- When He Says He Needs a Break
- When He Says He Never Really Loved You
- When He Says He Wants Space
- When He Says He Wants to Die
- When He Says He's Not Sure He Wants Kids
- When He Says He's Thought About Ending It
- When He Smells Like Alcohol Midday
- When He Stops Taking Care of Himself
- When He Tells You About Erectile Dysfunction
- When He Tells You He Was Abused as a Child
- When He Tells You He Was Sexually Assaulted
- When He Wants to Quit His Career
- When He Won't Answer Your Calls
- When He Won't Cry (and You Can Tell He Needs To)
- When He Won't Grieve
- When He Won't Talk to You
- When He Works Late Every Night and You Don't Know Why
- When He Yells at You
- When He Yells at the Kids
- When He's Checked Out as a Dad
- When He's Too Hard on Your Son
- When His Father Won't Talk to Him
- When His Parent Died and He Became Someone Else
- When You Find Out He's in Debt
- When You Found Drugs (Or Paraphernalia)
very-high
When He Asks for a Divorce
partner
Open →
very-high
When He Confesses to Cheating
partner
Open →
medium
When He Cried and Now Pretends It Didn't Happen
partner, friend
Open →
medium
When He Disappears During Fights
partner
Open →
high
When He Doesn't Want to See the Kids (Post-Divorce)
ex-partner, adult kid
Open →
medium
When He Gets Angry at Small Things
partner, kid
Open →