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Your 40s, In A Midlife Crisis

Not the cliché. The real kind — when the answers you built your life around stop being sufficient, and you have to rebuild without a template.

What the research says
The U-curve of happiness bottoms at ~46 in most developed countries. Male suicide risk climbs through 40s. Midlife is when most men first consider therapy.

What's actually happening in your 40s

Not the cliché. The real kind — when the answers you built your life around stop being sufficient, and you have to rebuild without a template. In your 40s, this often combines with midlife questions.

Themes that show up most: midlife questions, kids becoming teens, career plateau or pivot, first serious health signals, parents' mortality, identity renegotiation

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