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Your 40s, In A Career Pivot

Leaving the thing you were known for. Financial anxiety + identity dissolution + the judgment of people who knew the old version of you.

What the research says
The U-curve of happiness bottoms at ~46 in most developed countries. Male suicide risk climbs through 40s. Midlife is when most men first consider therapy.

What's actually happening in your 40s

Leaving the thing you were known for. Financial anxiety + identity dissolution + the judgment of people who knew the old version of you. In your 40s, this often combines with midlife questions.

Themes that show up most: midlife questions, kids becoming teens, career plateau or pivot, first serious health signals, parents' mortality, identity renegotiation

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